Dear Young Man,
Stinginess is not a sin- It’s a survival skill you must learn.
Listen up, men — if they’re calling you stingy, you’re doing something right.
In this economy, generosity without boundaries is financial suicide.
And you need to master the art of saying NO like your life depends on it — because it does.
Let’s break it down like a man should 👇🏾
👉IF YOU KEEP GIVING EVERYONE, NOTHING WILL REMAIN FOR YOU
You’ve made it your life’s job to fix other people’s problems while yours are piling up.
That’s not generosity — it’s emotional blackmail.
📌 A bleeding wallet can’t save anyone.
📌 Your broke ass won’t get sympathy when you hit rock bottom.
👉 PEOPLE LOVE “GIVERS” — UNTIL THE GIVER GOES BROKE
When your money was flowing, you were “the best.”
Now you’re careful, suddenly you’re “stingy.”
But hear this:
📌 Nobody’s clapping when you’re broke.
📌 Nobody’s paying your rent when you drown.
Be wise. Stop seeking validation from users.
👉 NOT EVERYBODY DESERVES YOUR MONEY — SOME PEOPLE ARE PARASITES
Your “stinginess” is boundaries.
Your “stinginess” is self-respect.
Your “stinginess” is wisdom.
📌 Anyone who always collects and never contributes is a leech.
Cut them off.
👉DEAR MAN, IF YOU DON’T MASTER STINGINESS, YOU’LL DIE BROKE CHASING WOMEN
You’re sending daily airtime.
Paying rent for a girl calling another man “baby.”
Flexing bottles with a dry bank account.
📌 Be stingy. Build your bag.
📌 Focus on assets, not ass.
👉 DEAR LADIES, STOP LIVING OFF MEN AND CALLING IT “SOFT LIFE”
Being a “bad b*tch” means affording your own life, not draining some poor guy.
📌 Stinginess isn’t poverty — it’s focus.
📌 Hustle. Save. Invest. Elevate.
👉 EVEN JESUS FED 5,000 — BUT WARNED AGAINST CASTING PEARLS TO PIGS
You want to help everybody?
You want to be the hero?
You’ll die broke and forgotten.
📌 Help when you can.
📌 Help who deserves it.
📌 Stop funding sob stories.
👉 STINGINESS IS STEP ONE TO FINANCIAL FREEDOM
Learn to say NO.
Learn to delay gratification.
Learn to choose savings over fake status.
📌 Leak cash now, cry later.
📌 Be stingy now, free forever.
Young Man,
You don’t owe anyone a transfer.
You don’t owe anyone a conversation.
📌 Stinginess is self-respect.
📌 Stinginess is clarity in a world built to drain you.
Let them gossip — you’ll laugh later from a position of power.
Stay wise
